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I mean, designer stubble can look sexy on a cute 26-year-old, but it makes a 62-year-old look like a dishevelled pensioner.

My pet hate is the man in a trainspotter-style anorak, with a pot belly boldly protruding over his trouser belt. You wouldn’t get blokes like that in France or Italy. But that does not wash in a modern society filled with strong, independent women.

Shuffling self-consciously in his seat beside me at the cinema, I sensed that my date was about to make his move.

I wasn’t sure whether he’d do the awkward arm-stretch-behind-my-chair manoeuvre, or ‘accidentally’ brush his thigh against mine.

We exchanged friendly messages and spoke on the phone. We stayed in touch via email and Daniel kept trying to pursue things further, but I knew there would be no point.

You can’t commit yourself to someone because he is a nice person — even if he does have a cool car.

Afterwards, many hundreds of people from around the world, men and women, contacted me to say they’d enjoyed the book and admired me for being so honest about what is still a fairly taboo subject: relationships between older women and younger men.

At 65, my date (I’ll call him Jerry) was a few years older than me.

We’d been introduced by a mutual friend who thought we would be a good match.

Mature women nowadays are all too aware of the importance of taking care of the face, hair and body, and of dressing well in order to hold the interest of the opposite sex. The balance of power has shifted and this seems to confuse a lot of 55-plus men, even the successful ones. Those cute, fit young guys I encountered during my wild year of online dating are for ever etched in my mind.

Why don’t older men think the same rules apply to them? Older men don’t seem to know how to conduct themselves around women. They don’t know whether they should pay for your dinner, or whether it’s OK to compliment you on your legs. They have made it tricky for me to find older chaps attractive, and believe me, I have tried. I saw him for dinner a few times until it became apparent that he wanted to take things to the next level: the bedroom.

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